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Risk Factors for Addiction (Alexander's Story)
Did you know that genetics, mental health, and trauma are some of the leading causes of addiction? Yes, genetic predisposition is as high as 60%. Is that surprising? Most people do not know this. Depression, anxiety, schizophrenia, and bipolar disease are some mental health conditions associated with addiction. Childhood trauma such as abuse, neglect, and bullying are other risk factors.
Did my son have risk factors? Of course he did. I suppose the cards were stacked against him. He had several risk factors including a genetic predisposition, clinically diagnosed depression, and anxiety.
Did my son want to have an addiction? ABSOLUTELY NOT. He used drugs to suppress the emotional pain from his depression and anxiety. Oh, and let’s not forget the genetic factor.
How do I know that depression and anxiety are risk factors? Initially, I didn’t know how bad depression or anxiety could be until my son passed away. You see, I became very depressed and suffered from extreme anxiety. There were times I felt like I couldn’t breathe and my chest would hurt during an anxiety episode. It was frightening and just a horrible feeling. The anxiety was right there all the time, ready to hit at any moment. The depression is like living in a dark hole with no light at the end of the tunnel. Everything is an effort. You can’t eat, sleep, socialize, or function. The anxiety and depression were so overwhelming and it consumed my life.
Then I realized for the first time just what my son had gone through all those years. THEN and ONLY THEN, did I really understand why he used drugs. He used them to deaden the emotional turmoil he lived every day of his life. That is what I needed to do as well, but being a nurse, I knew to contact my doctor and get the necessary prescribed medicine and treatment needed to control the emotional turmoil I was experiencing.
You can never truly understand the intensity of the emotional pain people with addiction experience. So next time, you see someone with an addiction, try to remember that there is a reason why they have this disease. Be kind, smile, wave, or just give a friendly gesture. It might be the only friendly gesture they get that day.
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